Making the Most of Your Visit With a Dementia Patient

Visiting a loved one with dementia can be challenging, but it is important to provide connection, comfort, and familiarity. As your relationship shifts, there are ways to make the most out of your time together.

Meet Your Loved One Where They Are

While it may be difficult to engage with your loved one when they are confused, don't focus on correcting them or attempting to argue. Educating yourself on dementia will equip you to better navigate the changes your loved one is experiencing. Instead, acknowledge how they are feeling and shift the focus to redirection.

Be Aware of the Timing and Environment

Too much noise or stimulation can lead to your loved one feeling agitated. Aim to choose a calm environment where you can focus on your connection, and not what is going on around you. Also, consider the time of day you are visiting, as your loved one may experience heightened agitation throughout the day.

Prepare for the Good and Bad Days

Every visit with your loved one is not going to go as planned. Be prepared for the days when they may be more confused or forgetful. Try not to take things personally, and understand their behavior is part of the disease.

Look Out For Yourself

Leaving a visit with a loved one can leave you in distress. Remember to take care of yourself during these times also. Consider reaching out to family or friends to express how you are feeling. Taking time to yourself ensures you can show up your best for your loved one.

Visiting a loved one with dementia requires a different approach and level of patience. By understanding the disease, you can be better equipped to handle the challenges that arise. Every visit is important and provides connection for your loved one throughout this difficult time.

Visit our Dementia Care page to understand more about dementia and how we can help.